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„Die 5. Jahreszeit lässt grüßen“
In Rollen schlüpfen und Masken ablegen
von Theo Bergauer appeared in
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spring, summer, autumn and winter - during the four seasons are structured guide you through our life can happen in the Carnival or Mardi Gras before, that we no longer see clearly. But roles and masks force us not only in the fifth season to decide consciously how we want to act on others and who we really are.
Do we have a few girlfriends, we're woozy in the head. We do not know longer so clear what right and wrong, what is the best way for us. The threshold goes down and we are more willing to do something that would never be in the fasting state in question. Conversely, some form of distance from reality, related to the good mood of carnival, also mean that we take up spontaneously to new ideas and even think fearlessly about what might happen if ... well if we had the courage to go other ways a long overdue decision to finally meet. But do we have to bear the consequences, taking responsibility for our lives.
questions you are in relaxed mood but just once: What I have in life before? What do I value? In reality, we know that it is not always the direct path that leads us to the goal. Sometimes we have to take diversion to take from time to time a detour to get safely to your destination. The captain checked every evening course and uses his journal to write a course deviation or determine what the next steps.
The 5th Season can be used exactly this: In order to tap away from reality once our subconscious and find out what we really want. However, we must also make it themselves, that we lost in the turmoil not permanent, but the fog eventually wieder lichtet. So übernehmen wir Verantwortung und treffen – unseren Lebensplan als Logbuch – wertvolle Entscheidungen. Wie im Fasching in einem überfüllten Saal auf dem Weg zur Bar gilt auch bei den persönlichen Zielen: Bleiben Sie beim Weg so flexibel wie nötig und beim Ziel so fokussiert wie möglich!
Rollenspiel?
Tagtäglich füllen wir zahlreiche kleine oder große Rollen aus: Ehemann, Vater, Freund, Vorgesetzter, Kollege, Mitarbeiter… mal sind wir aufmerksamer Zuhörer, mal Plaudertasche. Während wir im richtigen Leben also nahezu unsichtbar unsere Rollen wechseln, setzen wir in der 5. Jahreszeit bewusst eine Maske auf, verkleiden uns with great effort to contribute to the role we have chosen us as authentic as possible.
In life, there's the other way around: There we were, if we wear a mask, place it as possible. We are sovereign only if we are genuine, authentic and consistent, think in what we say and do. Consider why after the Carnival even aware of the following questions: What role I play in life? I have in my life a leading role or only a guest appearance? What are the roles I'm subconsciously aware of what I play? And what responsibility I take it?
Because in life is just not as simple as in the Carnival or Mardi Gras, when It states: "On Ash Wednesday it's all over ..."
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